I recommend a quick read through this
David Brooks editorial. His simple point is that the differences between the United States and Europe - specifically the relative size of the government's of each - are very small. While we like to claim that they are the socialists and we are the free-market capitalists is wrong:
The U.S. does not have a significantly smaller welfare state than the
European nations. We’re just better at hiding it. The Europeans provide
welfare provisions through direct government payments. We do it through
the back door via tax breaks.
For example, in Europe, governments offer health care directly. In the
U.S., we give employers a gigantic tax exemption to do the same thing.
European governments offer public childcare. In the U.S., we have child
tax credits. In Europe, governments subsidize favored industries. We do
the same thing by providing special tax deductions and exemptions for
everybody from ethanol producers to Nascar track owners.
These tax expenditures are hidden but huge. Budget experts Donald Marron
and Eric Toder added up all the spending-like tax preferences and found
that, in 2007, they amounted to $600 billion. If you had included those
preferences as government spending, then the federal government would
have actually been one-fifth larger than it appeared.
And this is pretty devastating:
When you include both direct spending and tax expenditures, the U.S. has
one of the biggest welfare states in the world. We rank behind Sweden
and ahead of Italy, Austria, the Netherlands, Denmark, Finland and
Canada. Social spending in the U.S. is far above the organization’s
average.
That said - we don't seem willing to accept the fact that we have a large welfare state and develop the means to pay for it.